If you’re seeking to become [Insert Your Name], God of Sex, look no further than the Venus Butterfly sex position. This MF-er is the jam, my friends. It’s a sex place that focuses on the vulva, combining inner stimulation of the vagina and also G-spot area with external stimulation of the clitoral glans.
Combined internal and external clitoral stimulation? Oh ! It’s like a smorgasbord of female-bodied pleasure. Your assignment, should you decide to accept it, is to learn your dexterity and give your spouse many, MANY orgasms. If this sounds like a jam, let’s go! Here’s everything you will need to learn about the Venus Butterfly.
The Venus Butterfly is a position that focuses entirely on female-bodied pleasure. It is essentially a love note specializing in the vulva (and vagina). Its purpose? To engage the entire clitoris, both external and internal, in one harmonious extravaganza.
In its most classic form, the receiving partner lies on their back, legs spread and spread like a butterfly. The giving partner lies or kneels between them in order to get optimum access to the vulva and vagina with their mouth, palms, and toys.
It looks like this:
“The position has a lot of variety, as you can use fingers, toys, or even a tongue internally while stimulating the clit with any of the above,” explains Lorrae Bradbury, a sex coach and founder of this sex-positive site Slutty Girl Problems. “You can mix and match any tools and techniques for pleasure, as long as there’s both internal and external stimulation.”
Now, if you are thinking: OK, but what about my dick? Does that count as internal? You CAN technically use a penis as the internal variable, but I’d think about that since a better missionary rather than endow it with all the sacred name of this goddess Venus, you vibin’ with me?
Firstly, this position is designed to focus on your female/clitoris-owning partner, so the first benefit is that it can make for some very fun power dynamics. Plus, it shows you truly care about their pleasure and are devoted to giving them pleasure. This can help any shy babes amongst us feel empowered and sexy. Good sex requires being in a positive headspace, so anything you can do to help your partner get there is a bonus.
The Venus Butterly is also the center of what we educators call the blended orgasm: Combined stimulation of different (but similar) erogenous zones for a truly explosive orgasmic experience. “Stimulation of numerous sites is extremely important to get vulva-owners’ pleasure,” explains Kenneth Play, a world-renowned sex hacker and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series. “In this sex act, you get to stimulate the clit, G-spot, and any other spots in the vagina (A-spot or cervix) all at once. This leads to stimulation of the many nerve pathways that go up to the brain all at the same time, creating a richer subjective experience.”
Lastly, one of all this other goodness is this technique’s truly wondrous capacity for variation. “It’s the perfect oral position to get creative and experimental with oral,” Bradbury says.
Since the Venus Butterly place has almost endless variations, it can also be utilized for some anal play. “Rimming (or oral stimulation around the anus) can be a fantastic warm-up and relaxation technique before exploring anal penetration,” Bradbury says. “Start slow with a lot of lubrication and gently massage the area in circular motions to relax the sphincter muscles. Be sure to use a lot of lube and go slow and gentle with any penetration.”
You may also stick to rimming on its own, sans penetration–whatever feels best for you. Your partner can excite themselves during rimming using a dual action toy such as the Ose 2 by Lora DiCarlo. (Check this out manual for our favorite dual stimulators for vulvas).
Don’t be afraid to get some anal toys up in there. You can simply (gently) pop in a little butt toy and then go back to focusing on your own practice of stimulating the G-spot and outside clitoris with your mouth and fingers/G-spot toy.
The bottom line: Get creative with it. Don’t forget to communicate with your spouse and be sure they’re feeling comfortable with every thing that is going down. Anal play isn’t for everybody so it’s important we’re all on the exact same page. Sexual check-ins are H-O-T.
Depending on your freedom, tastes, and the type of stimulation you enjoy, there may be ways to maximize this posture for your specific needs. Bradbury suggests obtaining some cushion activity up on your game:”Put a pillow under your hips to get easier access to the G-spot and intensify the sensation. Use a curved toy or fingers in a come-hither motion inside the vagina to target the G-spot.”
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